WHEN

When are we ready? To earn our right to love and to be loved? I don’t believe in superstitious whatsoever. Everything is predictable, check yourselves guys.

*It’s not when you feel you are lonely, you will always be lonely. Kalau u pikir dengan adanya pacar idup lu ga bakal lagi terasa sepi. Lu salah! Since loneliness is a state of mind. No one but yourself can change it.

*It’s not when you want to forget someone. Ga adil buat orang yang baru, coz you keep on thinking bout someone from the past. You haven’t freed your mind from the past. Keep thinking of him/her while you with new one. Pelarian bukan jawaban, u cuma akan menjadi another heartbreaker. Puas?

*It’s not when you are running from truth. Beberapa orang berpikir lari dari kenyataan akan mempermudah semuanya, nyatanya tidak. Masalah justru semakin rumit saat anda lari.

*It’s not when you are worried about the future. Some people ngebet gara2 masuk UP alias usia panik. Doing everything to get it, to be loved. It’s not about age, it’s about character maturity!

*It’s not when you are conquered by lust. Ga sedikit orang yang mati2an kejer cinta atas dasar nafsu. Yet, they covered themselves and justify themselves and say: “this is love!” in my eyes they are merely pathetic being ruled by their lust. Moreoever I hate what they do when they justify themselves with Holy Bible.

*It’s not when you need to be loved. To be loved, you must love first.

*It’s not when you are broken. Cuma God melalui waktu yang bisa heal your wounds. Not new person yang u perlakukan dengan tidak adil. You think you take nothing from him/her. Time is precious, always hearing your complaints then get dumped when you found new person is not fair.

But this:

*When you are ready and well prepared to face the consequences in being vulnerable. Selama anda tidak siap menerima konsekuensi, jangan pernah bermimpi to get there. It’s because keep on thinking about consequences why lots people stuck in their ways.

*when you no longer haunted by the past or being worried bout the future. When you are freed, you will find tranquility and clarity.

*when you fully take responsibility in your present life. Selama u ga bisa bertanggungjawab dengan hidup u, jangan harap u bisa dicintai.

*when you no longer care about the result and strive with all your might with sincerity.

*when you no longer running and hiding from yourself. Selama tidak bisa menerima diri sendiri, orang lain TIDAK AKAN PERNAH bisa menerima anda.

*when you start accepting other’s weakness. No tolerance? Nothing! Think twice, u think you are perfect, ga pernah salah? Berpikir kalo u perfect aja itu udah salah.

*when you do what you said, you really mean it. Not like a bunch of hypocrite. Integrity is a must.

*when you stop putting a nonsense standard. Standar yang ga masuk akal tanpa “ngaca” Cuma jadi bahan tertawaan.

*when you stop behave like a child and take a brave step into maturity.

*when you live your life to the fullest and stop regretting. Life is GREAT! Life is a bless! Cherish it!

Unless you stop blaming others and take 100% responsibility in your life, you will NEVER be healed!
I am but a man, and I can err.

"Hier stehe ich. Ich kann nicht anders. Gott helfe mir. Amen."-Martin Luther

God bless you!