Loving

Most people say like this:
"I love you because I need you."
But my God says this all the time:
"I need you because I love you."
He really needs me, because He really loves me.
-K-ray Cahyadi-

So if we believe that we shared the same image as our God, we should be able to love with sincere heart. We can also need others because we love them, not because ulterior motives, interests or hidden agendas. Most people need a reason to love, and somehow when the reason fades away so does the feeling. We all should know that:

We fall in love by chance.
Love come into our life without notice, we always wonder why suddenly such feeling can struck our heart. It changed how we see things in our life, everything look so bright and interesting. We never know what the correct answer why we love him/her. We just know that we love him/her no matter how jerk or tricky he/she is.

We stay in love by works.
Only works can make us stay in love. Compromise, adaptation, tolerance, taking, giving, loyalty, commitment, responsibility, respect, forgiving and selfless. Most people fail because of their ego, always took for granted of everything, judging, never accept partner's opinion, being a jerk, betrayal. Loving actually is the biggest lesson in human's life. You stop learning when you stop loving.

We out of love by choice.
It's your choice to accept arduous and harsh treatment from your partner.
It's your choice to hurt your partner.
It's your choice to betray him/ her.
It's your choice to stop paying attention.
It's your choice being selfish.
It's your choice cheating behind his/her back.
Remember, every choice has consequences, choose wisely, calculate the result.
Each choice draws unimaginable consequences, either it's good or bad.

To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
Every end gives new strength and spirit.
As for me, the words: "Live Hapily Ever After" is not a destination. But a journey that needs a lot of efforts. Finding the one is not a goal, actually beginning of a new chapter. A chapter of adaptation, understanding, taking and giving. Most people disappointed in the end because ruled by their ego, always take but never give. No tolerance and compromise take you nowhere, just another break up.
Big God bless you